Success is often measured by money or fame. But many people find that a successful life looks quite different. Here are eight signs of a successful life that have nothing to do with being rich or famous.
1. You define success for yourself
You’ve thought about what success means to you, rather than simply following others’ definitions.
2. You have people you love
Close relationships, with family, friends or community, are one of life’s greatest riches.
3. You keep learning
You’re curious and open to growing, at any age.
4. You find meaning in your work
Whether paid or unpaid, your work feels worthwhile to you, at least some of the time.
5. You know where to place your attention
You’re able to focus on what matters to you and let go of some distractions.
6. You keep going after setbacks
Failures don’t stop you for long. You learn and try again.
7. You try to do no harm
You care about how your actions affect others and the world.
8. You enjoy simple moments
You can find joy in ordinary things: a meal, a walk, a laugh with a friend.
Success can be gentle
You don’t need to tick every box. A successful life is one that feels meaningful to you.
How little is enough
Write down your own definition of success in one sentence.
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