We often measure success by visible markers: a job title, an income, a house, a list of achievements. These things can matter, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting them. But many people reach their goals and still feel something is missing.
Measuring success from a soulful perspective means looking at a deeper set of questions. Not only What have I achieved? but How am I living?
Why outer success isn’t enough
People who reach the top of their field sometimes describe feeling empty when they get there. Achievements bring moments of satisfaction, but they don’t always bring lasting meaning or peace.
A soulful way to measure success
How you spend your days. Are your days filled with things that matter to you? Do you have time for rest, joy and the people you love?
How you treat others. Kindness, honesty and empathy are signs of a life well lived, whatever your job title.
How you treat yourself. Do you speak to yourself kindly? Do you care for your body and mind?
How you grow. Are you learning, stretching and becoming more yourself over time?
How you contribute. In big or small ways, are you making life a little better for others?
Empathy matters
Empathy, really understanding and caring about others, enriches every part of life. It deepens relationships, builds trust and makes workplaces more humane. It’s also one of the most meaningful measures of success.
Holding both
You don’t have to give up ambition to live soulfully. You can work towards goals while also paying attention to how you live along the way.
How little is enough
At the end of today, ask yourself, What made today feel meaningful? Write down your answer. Over time, you’ll see what success really means to you.
For more, read 15 reasons why you should live with intention.
For a quiet place to write your way through this season, you’ll find a guided journal on the Guides page.